Blog’s labour lost

I first accessorized Salt’s Brianna dress when it was a fresh offering at April’s ROMP. I used a cute hairstyle that came with a rose gag, something I picked up at a pervy fair running at the same time. I even had the perfect pose, also from that fair. Anise, my av, was looking sweet-but-hot in her Glam Affair applier. I was going to take achingly au courant pictures. But I didn’t have the time to shoot. When I popped the outfit on my av yesterday, I discovered that the hair/gag appeared dated and my av’s face seemed silly. It took me ages to refresh the look. I’d already used the pose in another post, so I went in search of a prop. You know how it goes. I shot for ages in a pose prop I wasn’t excited about, never getting a photo I was happy with. Finally, I chose a Windlight I no longer use and got this stunning effect. It’s still not an ensemble I’m happy with, and it doesn’t show off the amazing dress, which has a temptingly open backside. But it’s an aesthetic departure for me so I was excited by it. This in spite of the fact that my av looks ugly and demented (thanks to a free Foxcity expression HUD). All that hard work and frustration and all the unbeauty I reluctantly embraced led to the inevitable: the pic tanked on Flickr.*
Meanwhile, I threw together this outfit in a hot minute. It includes a colour-change dress by Scandalize and hair by Fabia, both gifts at Très Chic. I shot it quickly, when I was too tired to try anything fancy, and with no plan to post it. I used a tried-and-true Windlight and an old pose I adopt far too often. Guess what happened. It’s steaming up the charts on Flickr.(Okay, as steaming as my photos get.** It’s going to get more than 20 likes.) The moral of the story is: fuck this blogging thing is fucking hard to figure out, even after 7 years. Also: don’t let me go to Uber.

*Pubic hair means the pic is restricted. Since it’s not erotic I didn’t post it in any of the sexy/sex groups. Maybe I should have done better by it.
**In fact, there’s not so much steam here. It’s a comparatively classy ensemble.

Credits for things I didn’t mention in the post
Pic one
pose prop by EvoLove
hair by Dura
cuffs/collar by Salt and Pepper
ginger (yay) pubic hair by Rose and Elin’s Curiosity Shoppe on Marketplace
Pic two
location Comhar (see last post for URL)
shoes old N-Core gift
pose so so olde PDA perfection

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The night senpai noticed me…

…I noticed that the moon was full. Looking sweet and kinky in my galaxy uniform, a group gift from Violent Seduction, I had no trouble convincing senpai to follow me to the forest, where, I promised, he could see my petal-white skin and bleached pubic hair shine more brightly than any celestial body. The razor-sharp clouds and black bare trees made senpai a little nervous. But that’s how I like them—young, dumb and giggling with fear.

Credits
NEW Violent Seduction – Jabami Maitreya (Galaxy) (group gift) (see my Flickr for a shot of the outfit with the top removed and the rope revealed)
[monso] My Hair – Yoon/ Fruit Pack – White
.LeLutka.Head.Simone 3.0
Glam Affair, Ilary (Lelutka applier) Petal (was a 50L Friday item)
L’Etre.Les accessoires – Diamond septum [BLACK/SILVER] (old gift)
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
NOX. Astral [White] tattoo
=Zenith=Xue Nu Okobo (Tiffany) -Maitreya (past gacha)
Caboodle – Amorous Panties – Bubblegum – Maitreya (past gacha)
Nuwiggles, Forever Alone forest setting (available for use at Comhar public photo studio)

Dressed for it

SK’s Maeve outfit is not a dress. It’s a blouse, a skirt, a belt and a shoulder harness that can be worn together to look like a dress. Or they can be worn separately, scandalously, to realize bondage fantasies that work for cocktail hour in a contemporary city or slave days in centuries-old Marrakech. Visit We <3 Roleplay to choose from a range of lovely colours. Did you trade in Epiphany items for points? Did you remember to redeem your points? I scored the Naberius Iron Eater earrings. And some bubbles…not shown here.

Credits
*Sweet  Kajira* Maeve LILAC Maitreya (We <3 Roleplay)
tram, H0223 hair / HUD-A
//Naberius// Iron Eater Earrings (Exclusive) (redeem points to snag this at Epiphany gacha)
*{( konpeitou )}* Matsuri gacha -10- branded clogs (black) (past gacha)
MOONSTORE, Ribbon-collar (1L on Marketplace)
[BREATHE]-Inci Bracelet-Black (gift at Gacha Garden)
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
-Glam Affair – Sasha skin – India 01
[CX] Noh Eyeliner Style 1 (Tintable)
FGInc.+ A Blessed Kiss face tattoo, Gold (gift at Gacha Garden)
{S0NG} :: Cupid~ Grey Eye
Minimal-Marrakech backdrop

X is for Xmas

It’s my Merry Xmas post, which is filled with sexy hunt gifts like this less-than-wholesome sweater dress from Nerido, a prize in the Women Only First Snow Hunt. In addition to the white bondage straps that can be worn alone, the sweater features a pair of reindeer doing it doggy style. Frosted glasses by Dazed and sparkly shoes by Nardcotix are also hunt gifts. I traveled the grid to find a place to shoot this ensemble and chose Pichi, which boasts a beautiful layout, color palette and carefully chosen furnishings.
Chaps, how do I hate thee? Let me count the ways. Whether on cowboys or leathermen, chaps make me cringe. They seem neither protective nor sexy. And I associate them with men and American icons, two things I don’t like. I decided to confront my chapsphobia and paid big money for the fatpack, the only option available, of Phedora’s fifteen-colour-change Alstromeria, at Collabor88. You are supposed to pair these with a bodysuit, but I passed on that because I was broke. More importantly, I figured if you’re going to buy chaps you might as well take your cue from the leathermen and slap those chaps on a bare ass. (“Slap ass” and “chaps my ass” distributed in one sentence. This blog post is going off!) (Insert line about excessive nudity under the cut.) Continue reading

Baby girl does Filthy Sakura

I don’t usually like the cutesy little sub look and ethos, but I had to take a shot at simpering when I found the Baby Girl nipple piercing by Nova and Safira’s adorable Allyson Dress. Of course, my baby girl didn’t turn out quite as perky and sensuous as she should have. Don’t imagine, however, that she’s suffering because of the mean purple marks on her chest. Nox’s Love Bites is a long sinuous line of nibbles that travels all the way down to pleasure central.

Credits
NEW Nova — Nipple Piercings – Baby Girl Maitreya (at Kinky Monthly)
NEW Nox, Love Bites
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
[KoKoLoReS] Hair – Kiana ‘Accents’ (gift at Hairology)
*PH* knit choker (gift at Hairology)
NEWish – Safira – Allyson Dress – Black Lace (Maitreya Lara) (fucking love this)
NEW ::SG:: Diana Classic MESH Nails Maitreya (gift)
fri. – Bea Heels (Bats)
AnimAlive, Leather Cuffs from a prop (idk which)
-Glam Affair- Livy skin- Artic – 03 C (old gacha)
{S0NG} :: Chibi~ Abyss Eye
shot at Filthy Sakura

Babes (with a bit of bondage)

I met the owner of Floating World while I was shooting some new Tentacio and Fallen Gods gacha goodies. We talked about rope. :)
I didn’t get a good shot of Tentacio’s Dirty Okobos, which come with skeleton feet, so I had to get this shot right. It took me forever. The longer I beheld Anorak bound and bent over the more I realized what a horrific punishment pose this would be.

Credits
Photo 1
Tentacio, Tomoto kimono skirt dark (Arcade gacha) Fallen Gods, Venus Anatomica Black (Twisted Hunt prize: one of many colors hidden separately)
{Ama. : Blood Splatter includes Omega applier and Full Body Tattoo for classic avs, in light and heavy splatter
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
*DG*64 HAIR – MIX COLOR
Kibitz – Dali’s leather hand cuffs red (past gacha)
Kibitz – Leather collar sensei
[BP] War Fans v03 common (past gacha)
NOX. Giftmas – Day 23 [Indo Septum – Black] n/a
{S0NG} :: Aimi~ Aqua Eye
-Glam Affair – Caroline Skin – New Day – Artic A (n/a)

Photo 2 and 3
Tentacio, Let me Breathe Oxygen mask RARE (at Gacha Garden)
Tentacio, Let me Breathe white Harness (includes top and botom) (at Gacha Garden)
Tentacio, Tomoto kimono skirt candy (Arcade gacha)
Tentacio, Tomoto okobos candy (Arcade gacha)
*DG*64 (Dark Red)
ALTAIR* spike cuffs .pink. (past gacha)
*The Cove* Ever and Never Rings (ummmm…)
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
{S0NG} :: Anim~ Aqua Eye
-Glam Affair – Sasha skin – India 01 NB (past gacha)
Izzie’s – Nose Bleed 1 (classic avatar)
[:T:] Runny 1 n/a
pose in photo 2 is from the prop Libertine, Justine Mature Edition [2.0]
shot at Fallen Gods
photo 3 pose by Slouch

The bride wore hemp

We were negotiating under the hard point when she said “I’m drawn to your emotions.” Our scene was not extraordinary and yet it was emotionally intense for me. She tied me as I stood on one foot, breaking the rules I know so well from Japanese kinbaku. She has a knack for making me think “oooh noooo, I didn’t realize she could tie those body parts together.” I felt the delicious unhappiness of being tied, and let myself stay with that feeling far longer than I ever have. I admit I hid my face so that she wouldn’t see me scowling and worry she was going too far. When I mentioned this later, she said “I like your scowly face.” She gave me a gift. It was only the third time we’d tied, so this was a surprise. It was a long lovely scarf, which she said reminded her of me. She used it as a gag, imagining that I would feel shame when I ruined it with my spit. (I didn’t ruin it. I’m not spitty enough. It was so thoughtful of her to play with my love of shame.) At the end of the scene, I collapsed to my hands and knees. I didn’t feel as though I was flying. I’ve had that experience before. I felt as though I was kneeling in front of a big fan, or rather, that the world was a steady stream of delicious air rushing at me, waving through me, not around me. I hoped that she would leave me on my hands and knees, and untie me that way. She did. She managed to stay behind me, leaving me to show off my ecstasy to the busy dungeon. As soon as I was free, I dove into her lap and wrapped my arms all the way around her waist. The voice that told me I shouldn’t be so needy could not break my bliss or my grip. She said “It’s so endearing that you’ve turned into a puddle.” We both feel lucky that we met.
I won the rare Bound Bride gacha from S&P. The HUD offers a range of natural shades of rope and a variety of colours for the gown, in transparent and opaque fabrics. Winning this gave me another reason to feel lucky. Only less earthshakingly so.

Credits
S&P bound bride – Bride – Lara – RARE (Arcade gacha)
S&P bound bride – sandals low – Lara black (Arcade gacha)
Doe: Faye – Gingers (Arcade gacha)
M. Crimson, Old Roses Tattoo (1L on Marketplace; Maitreya, Belleza, Omega and Default body)
Vanilla, 2nd ed. and Fallen Gods Inc., Afterplay Marks
[[RH]] Old Rose Bouquet -Blue (includes pose)
. a i s l i n g . WristCuff (came with a piece of furniture)
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
-Glam Affair – Sasha skin – India 01 C
{S0NG} :: Cupid~ Blue Eye
[Kres] Kinky Neon – Common 9 (past gacha available on Marketplace)
pic 1 shot at Sex Doll Dungeon

BDSM meets the moon

I had a wonderful experience at a recent rope convention with a man who needed a partner and advertised on Fet. I really liked him, to the point where I thought I might be finally meeting someone I could date. We spent some meals together and scened three times. He introduced me to breath play in the most moderate way possible and thrilled me in several other hot/mean ways. Things did go wrong at the con. I was triggered by a trigger warning. He did not handle that well, could not even empathize with me when I told him about being assaulted. But it was the last day, and he was already pulling away. A few days later, he wrote to check in and told me he was disappointed with the con and with missing the classes that I was unable to hack.

I tried over the past two weeks to be patient and let him go through drop and job stress and come out with positive feelings. But I stopped short of telling him he was an amazing top. I wanted to spare myself the humiliation I’ve experienced in the past: I would PM a top to tell him he was wonderful and describe the parts of our scene I loved, and I would hear nothing in response. I ended up humiliated anyway, because eventually, all my con partner could say was “Don’t worry, you were very good within the parameters.” I sent him an angry message in response to that, and he replied by saying that he’d reread all his messages and didn’t know what he’d said wrong. And felt sad. I then sent a conciliatory message, telling him that from my perspective we had been very lucky to find a partnership that was so enjoyable. We are both intellectuals. He likes good art, not Renoir. I found him attractive without wanting to have sex with him, which is perfect for rope and coincided with his limit on sex. He wore appealingly odd outfits, and would randomly touch my ankle or knee in an affectionate way during class. This was lovely because I wanted to touch him too, and that’s unusual for me: if there’s no connection and chemistry with a stranger, I have no way of faking it. Many times I have sat on mats separated from partners by two or three feet, feeling envious of the cuddling couples in the classes. This time I was with someone who invited me to get close without pressing for it, who even welcomed me when I asked if I could climb into his lap on a morning I was particularly stiff and tired. He stroked my back while I lay there and asked me if I purred. (Be warned: below the cut is a big bare butt.)
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Don’t wanna be a cowboy

donwannabeacowboySometimes I like to challenge myself, and the powers that be, by dressing my av in brown and giving her ponygirl dreams.

Credits
*PROMAGIC* Yodha – Bra – Brown (gacha at Kinky Monthly)
*PROMAGIC* Yodha – Panties – Brown (gacha at Kinky Monthly)
Kibitz – Dali’s leather torso straps [XS] brown – RARE (past gacha)
#EMPIRE – Ipomoea – Maitreya (fatpack only)
[e] Kabrina hair
Messiah : Qavah / Unisex / DBrown mask
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5
INYB, Lexi project tattoo (not available)
*Bolson / Face Tattoo – Fang (Fresh) (C) (no idea where this came from)
#adored – kit lashes
{S0NG} :: Cupid~ Dark Green Eye
-Glam Affair – Sia India – 04 C
poses: Ama & Nais – Cuffed pack (past Romp)
shot at: PFS Stables & Nico’s Haunted Dungeon